
Review by Kevin Brown
Roisín O’Donnell’s debut novel tells the story of Ciara, a woman who seems to have the perfect life: an attractive husband who has a steady job, enabling her and their two children to live a comfortable life. However, the reader discovers quite quickly that Ryan is not what he seems, as he emotionally and sexually abuses her. Readers see little of that abuse firsthand, especially the assaults, but they clearly see the effect of that abuse on Ciara.
She is finally able to leave Ryan, but her life for much of the next year is precarious, as there is little housing in Dublin for her and her children. She ends up in a hotel, with little money, trying to find a better place to live and a job to support her children. While her family offers to help her, she—like many survivors of abuse—is reluctant to take it. However, the people she meets in the hotel (and one brave civil servant who meets her outside of the office to tell her the truth about the reality of finding housing) help keep her from completely falling through the gaping holes of the social safety nets.
Throughout the novel, Ciara questions if she is making the right decision by leaving, especially when she gives birth to their third child and returns with him to the hotel. Ryan’s years of abuse have made Ciara afraid of him and unsure of herself, so she has moments where she allows him back into their lives, partly because of the legal system, but partly because of what he has done to her psyche.
O’Donnell reveals the realities of abuse that is more emotional in nature and how it causes a person to change, as well as the problems with the systems that should help women in such situations. However, there are still moments of joy where Ciara remembers who she once was and who she still can be.
Nesting by Roisín O’Donnell. Algonquin Books, February 2025.
Reviewer bio: Kevin Brown has published three books of poetry: Liturgical Calendar: Poems (Wipf and Stock); A Lexicon of Lost Words (winner of the Violet Reed Haas Prize for Poetry, Snake Nation Press); and Exit Lines (Plain View Press). He also has a memoir, Another Way: Finding Faith, Then Finding It Again, and a book of scholarship, They Love to Tell the Stories: Five Contemporary Novelists Take on the Gospels. IG, Threads, and BlueSky: @kevinbrownwrites