Reviewed by Eleanor J. Bader
Longtime activist and community organizer Vanessa Priya Daniel, founder and former executive director of the Groundswell Fund, a foundation dedicated to supporting grassroots, women of color-led organizations, has written an extraordinary book that merges memoir with matter-of-fact advice for advancing social change.
She begins by situating herself as the biracial daughter of a Sri Lankan father and white mother and describes what happened after she told her paternal family about being sexually abused by a relative. The family’s refusal to believe Vanessa caused her mom to flee; she ultimately opted to raise her only child in the mostly-white Pacific Northwest. The move caused a deep rupture for Vanessa, separating her from a Sri Lankan community that she had previously loved. Moreover, this foundational disruption has continued to indirectly impact her work as a progressive change agent and parent.
But other factors have also affected her, and the book offers a deconstruction of the ways she – indeed, all people – internalize racism, sexism, homophobia, and transphobia, “isms” that can support or stymie community organizing. Concrete examples highlight the ways groups can be destroyed from within by allegations that a leader of color is “acting white” if they demand punctuality, good grammar, and productivity. While this may be seen as a public airing of dirty laundry, by calling out the deleterious impact these assertions have on targeted people, Unrig the Game provides a courageous interrogation of organizational implosions. It also provides a direct pathway out of destructive behavior, showcasing the experiences of several women of color who, like Daniel, have had their authority challenged and character derided.
Unrig the Game is a celebration of collaboration over competition and a wise analysis of the ways personal and political power, mental illness, and “cancel culture” intersect. This makes the book essential reading for everyone who works for, or with, feminist, queer, antiracist, and pro-democracy organizations.
Unrig the Game: What Women of Color Can Teach Everyone About Winning by Vanessa Priya Daniel. Random House, March 2025.
Reviewer bio: Eleanor J. Bader is a Brooklyn, NY-based journalist who writes about books and domestic social issues for Truthout, Rain Taxi, The Progressive, Ms. Magazine, the Los Angeles Review of Books, and The Indypendent.
